Yes, a lot of men are hurt right now as Serena Williams announced her engagement to boyfriend and Reddit.com founder Alexis Ohanian.

The engagement comes as a surprise to many, as Williams and Ohanian have kept their love life private. However, they have posted a few pictures together on Instagram, nothing too romantic. Williams announced the engagement on her Reddit.com page in a thread titled “I Said Yes,” Williams shared their romantic proposal story on.

“I came home / A little late / Someone had a bag packed for me / And a carriage awaited / Destination: Rome / To escort me to my very own “charming” / Back to where our stars first collide / And now it was full circle / At the same table we first met by chance / This time he made it not by chance / But by choice / Down on one knee / He said 4 words / And / isaidyes,” 

Ohanian commented on Williams’ Reddit post, writing, “And you made me the happiest man on the planet.”